It can be so tempting to quit. When I first when to university, many hours from my family home, I found it difficult, and I wanted to leave. My grandmother, on a plain piece of white cardboard, handwrote me this poem by John Greenleaf Whittier

Don’t Quit

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low, and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don’t quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don’t give up though the pace seems slow –
You may succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor’s cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out –
The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It might be near when it seems afar.
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit –
It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit.

In my college dorm room, I hung it on a thin piece of wool over my door handle so that I would read it every time I walked out the door. I was very close to quitting, and in hindsight, I am so glad that I persisted. Fast forward thirty-plus years, and I am struggling with similar feelings about establishing a meaningful life for my son.

The journey (despite many miracles) is arduous, the need in this space is so great, and it feels like no matter how much support is provided, it is like a ‘drop in the ocean.’ It feels like we are so close yet so far. The sacrifice as caregivers is monumental, and it is hard not to wonder if it is all worth it and want to give up.

And I am challenged by the parable of the persistent widow in Luke 18:1-8. (worth a read if you need to become more familiar with it).

verse 1 says, ‘Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them they should always pray and not give up.’

How often, Lord, do I have to keep asking for ‘more’? It is the opposite of how I feel comfortable living the Christian life.

There is so much injustice; it can feel like the widow in this parable that we are constantly coming up against an unjust judge. Yet then, I am prompted by the Spirit of God to not see impossible situations based upon what is possible in the natural. That the Holy Spirit lives inside me, and it is like it says in Zechariah 4:6 ‘Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit, ‘says the Lord.

We can come before the Lord and give Him our struggle and the impossible situations we may feel up against, and trust in Him that He will move the mountains; he is not like the unjust judge; rather, it is learning to trust Him in our impossible and in the journey He leads us on, knowing that He is a good Father.

So persist as it is when things seem most complicated that we must not quit. They are never too complex for God.

Until next time,


  1. Thanks for sharing “Don’t Quit” with us. I have a shorter version hanging in my den, but was not familiar with the rest of it.
    Encouraging words.

  2. Truth, things are never ever, too complicated for God to figure his way through. FMF17

  3. It’s 4am, a night of pain,
    and, boy, the moments slowly run,
    but I’m alive and do remain
    because I’m having too much fun
    in this fight ‘gainst dun-faced cancer
    (thinks its grimace oh so scary!),
    but I think of me as a dancer,
    a stage-leap from the ordinary
    to a wilder lethal land
    where we laugh and play for keeps
    for the right to stay and stand,
    and not bow with a sullen sheep’s
    bleat of protest, woe and blame
    against what truly is a game.

  4. Thank you so much for sharing Leisa

  5. Thank you for sharing, Don’t Quit, with us, Leisa. I read it many years ago, but it is worth reading again. The Lord is faithful to lead and guide us through the mountains and through the valleys of life. ~Lisa, FMF #3

  6. Thank you for your encouragement and agreement, we must persist and not quit by the grace and strength that can only come from God

  7. This>>”So persist as it is when things seem most complicated that we must not quit. They are never too complex for God.” Indeed and Amen, my friend.
    Visiting today from FMF#2


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